that perfect guy

The perfect guy? Every straight girl out there has one, no matter how he looks or acts, he’s that person that every girl wants to end up with but often is slightly different or a world apart from the one you end up with.  Who your perfect guy is says a lot about you as a person, how you were raised, the kind of things that impact your life, what it is in side you that keeps you going.  I as a lover of all things anime have a different idea of Mr. Perfect than the nearby star wars geek for example.  Some girls sacrifice personality for looks, others looks for personality, while I believe both are important.  Some people might say that wanting both is too picky and selfish, however only those who choose to keep waiting and searching end up with their ideal ending.  The story must end somewhere so keep the end in mind at the beginning and find someone who fits into that place; the following is my dream guy, so feel free to post your own.

The most important thing to me is that he’s kindhearted, gracious, courageous and caring, this is because I grew up watching anime’s filled with courageous, kindhearted male characters, true knights in shining armor if you will.  The next thing is talented, I love seeing people use the skills they were blessed with, whether it is dancing, singing, poetry, writing, art or music and as an artist myself it makes sense wanting to be with someone who is also creative.  Then there’s tasteful, someone who know what to say and when not to say anything, as well as knowing instinctively what not to wear.  That last one probably sounds weird to some people but to someone like me who always tries to look her best it makes sense.

Next is description, though I really like most all hair and eye color combo’s I’ve always been a sucker for big brown eyes, more especially almond shaped one’s rimmed in thick black lashes.  Blame it on the fact that I listen to a lot of Asian music, anyway, I’ve also always pictured a guy with long hair (something my mom and grandparents hate but I can’t help finding sexy.) though I don’t really care what hair color but like black/brown.  Is it wrong that I’ve always imagined him in dress shirts with a high collar or a loose poet shirt? It seems like it doesn’t belong in this century but it would be perfect to me. My mom’s told me before that my guy sounds like a girl to her, but to me, if you look around at nature, most species have better looking males and plainer females, so having a male be beautiful and powerful makes perfect sense by my standards.

 Basically this is how I would describe him face:  gentle but powerful, his large dark eyes are kind yet mysterious their depth’s like twin pools of molten chocolate are framed by long, thick, black lashes.  His eyebrows are elegantly fine and his nose aristocratically straight, his lips are full and soft set in a soft smile and his dark chocolate hair falls in gentle waves down his elegant neck to just below his shoulders which though slightly wider set then a girls are still narrow, he’s slender and moves with the grace of a prince, his eyes sparkle when he’s amused and angry, however he’s able to make you feel safe simply by folding you in his arms. He’s the kind of person who wouldn’t hurt anyone, yet could scare anyone who tries to cause harm within an inch of their life.